Open your words do not sound cold or harsh, just true. I am guessing these bonds will be there or just keep coming back until we are free from all attachment. Trinity, thanks for the support. There is so much to let go of and yes it can be extra challenging because of this bond. I found this very helpful, "Often the best thing I can do is hold the space so that he feels safe to feel and explore what he is feeling - not to make it better, but to help him find his own way through it. It feels much stronger in the long run. " I do have this strong feeling like I need to help but have to keep remembering that I am really helping no one. Only self realization going on!
Much love to you both