How people project holographic avatars into relationships
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I felt to share a phenomenal dynamic with you that has happened to me recently. I perhaps wouldn't have fully recognised it, except the same filter was projected by several different people. In my situation, it was to do with the projection of the patriarch archetype.
So probably all people have some kind of subconscious conditioning in relation to the patriarch energy, until that is they fully embody it for themselves. They're either have had good or bad experiences with the father figure in their formative years, or else a mixture of both. I've also come across plenty of cases where a father figure has abused their child, including sexually. Such occurances, needless to say, are going to be deeply impactful for a child. It's incredibly difficult for them to know how to process such trauma, and so it gets pushed down into the subconscious. Consider also the major religions that have been based on patriarchy, where billions of people are now holding that karma of disempowerment and loss of soul sovereignty. Which is why I say that probably all people have some kind of trauma or understandable subconscious judgment about the patriarchal energy.
So now if they encounter someone who embodies qualities of strong patriarchal energy, even if aligned, there's a tendency to project that subconscious filter onto them. What I've witnessed is the formation of what I would call a 'holographic avatar' into the relating experience between you. They're actually relating to the hologram rather than you. And they'll project all manner of drama and delusion onto the hologram. It's as if they can't really see the real you at all. The situation can get exacerbated by entities amplifying the drama so as to gain energy from it. A person relating to you in this kind of way, will actually believe the delusion that's been created, and so to someone else, sound incredibly compelling.
I've found it a difficult conundrum to break. But it most definitely IS possible. Here are some important pointers...
1) Work not to get wound up or angry yourself. Work not to over energise responses
2) Carefully and gently call their illusion
3) If they're open to it, help them confront the source of their inner pain
4) Help them see what it is they think they need or want from you
5) If the projection doesn't stop, or starts to escalate, it's important to step away from the relationship, or else you simply risk triggering and building more of the delusional experience.
So I invite you to be mindful that in some of the most challenging relating experiences you might be having, that something like this dynamic could be happening. Work not to take things personally. Work to see their delusion about you and the projection that is likely being made. Then see if it becomes possible to help them dissolve this.
In loving support
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