Another important question to ask here, Andy and Vimal is: if these relatives become constantly negative, judgmental, and even gaslighting, why continue to visit at all?

What's the attachment within? And remember, attachment could also mean where you go unconscious and 'let your guard down', as expressed above.

Certainly, it's often the case, that people on the path still have self-doubt in their soul's pathway and lack of self-belief. And so create that as an external mirror. It will cause triggering within (as Vimal illuminated), which must be worked with until there's no reactivity in these situations - you instead, draw natural boundaries. Like, for example, being there, but not needing to respond.

But there's something you then need to be accutely aware of:

If you continually still subject yourself to these circumstances, the risk is, you're surrounding yourself with negative feedback loops and toxic soil. This can be very retarding to the 'growth of the plant'. As opposed to getting positive nutrients, sunlight and water.

Yes, the plant grows strong in its roots if it is continually trimmed back. However, there's so much more of you that you could still realise and actualise. Especially in terms of the multidimensional field. And this is going to require the right reflective feedback loops, and the right environments, to encourage.

I witness, all too often, people on the path derail themselves by constantly subjecting themselves to these negative environments. Often, that comes from perceived responsibility and obligation. Which, of course, is not natural to the soul.

Something important to consider.

Well wishes
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