10/10/2022 Shift Update

The shift keeps moving along through different, progressive unwinding stages, just like an ancient gordian knot unravelling itself. Especially now, I'm observing the illumination and revelation of Black Snake energy in relationships. It's a highly limiting entanglement between people that keeps them locked in old, repetitive cycles and loops, based on subtle judgments and projections. How best to deal with this energy?

Firstly, I highly recommend reviewing my lead article on Black Snake Energy in the Shift
(image: Snakes on the brain, by Design_Discord at zazzle.com)

Judgments and Condemnations

The way this Black Snake energy works to limit in relationships is by creating subtle (and also overt) judgments that each partner, or participant of a group, projects into the space. It takes a truth that you might express, and then embellishes it to a degree. So you might be making an observation about the other that is based on some truth - "you're always limiting my freedom of expression". There might be some truth in this, but watch for the concealed word "always". And then also what follows after, "which is because you're always holding back your own expression because of how your father was with you". This then can make the other defensive and look for a way to counter. You then get a limiting loop of activity, which the more is played out, the more is embedded.

Watch especiallty when someone makes a condemnation about you. A condemnation might begin with a discernment with truth in it, which you recognise, but then it twists it in, using phraseology that creates YOU as a being that is enfolded in the discernment. It's subtly creating the idea in subconscious that this is who you are and what defines you.

Black Snake energy will run a typical conversation between partners (for example) that is littered with these kinds of condemnations in quick succession. In so doing, it can overwhelm and ensnare whole reality constructs between people that they then adhere to. It's an abusive dynamic,which can be so extreme, that it causes you to doubt the very nature of who you are. It leads to mental, and emotional problems and even bouts of psychosis.

What I've witness of late, is that this energy is being highly challenged by the accelerating Torus - the frequency of consciousness is rising, especially the determination to be authentic, and so this energy is surfacing. It's becoming increasingly obvious in relationships.

In the beginning, when you see it being done to you, there can be a strong temptation to fight or else pull away completely. But neither will likely be productive in the long run, especially if you still have this programming in you.

What to do? The key is not to fight it, but to call it.

Call it Out

What I mean by this, is that wherever it arises in relationships, call out what you're seeing: "I'm experiencing you being judgmental of me in this way..." It's crucial to work not to over-energise, because that simply perpetuates the struggle - it invites you to use unloaded phraseology, for example. But also watch for the other deflecting and simply coming back at you with a reaction about how you're being. You could say something like, "well, that may be the case, but it doesn't answer how you're being with me - let's deal with that first". Even if you recognise truth in what they're saying, it's crucial not to crumple and be overwhelmed by the deflection.

Progressively, you're not accepting any judgment the other makes about you - you're calling it and reflecting it back. You're illuminating it. Do be prepared to work on your own stuff with them, of course, but be absolutely clear, that when something has been exposed within them, you require that thread to be explored first. When something is exposed in them, and they seem ready to work with it, that's where to empathise and help them feel into the attacking energy. Let them know, that whilst you won't back down, you're prepared to be compassionate to work with them and their feelings.

This is how we can work to untangle the gordian knot which sits in the relationship or collective psyche.

I cast that open today for inquiry and feedback. How might this kind of dynamic be active in your relationships? Do share. I'll be happy to provide feedback.

Bright blessings

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