Oh yes, it can be such a tricky energy in relationships! The past months I had to face how much the bs energy is present in me and how it looks to oppose reality and the other person. When an argument arises that goes back and forth with accusations and fixations, I can see how it works on judgements I have mostly of the (distorted) warrior, becoming opposing and passive agressive towards it. And I really relate to how confusing a conversation can become to the point where there is a loss of connection to reality and it starts to feel psychotic, as if the mind is taken over. Fortunately there is more and more recognition of it and an increasing ability to emerge out and call the energy for what it is, with the growing ability to just watch it without acting. It's really about always working on the awareness of how you created the reflection of the other's behaviour and working to own it. I recently had to realign a lot in my relationship, and I slipped into projecting again for a while, but afterwards when I could own it a beautiful shift happened.

I recently feel a growing sensitivity towards words being used, as you mention in your article, words that carry an absolute energy and create a fixed judgement started to feel very limiting. There is something really beautiful about writing and speaking with an increasing level of awareness, being intimate with text and language and choosing words more carefully, words that feel more 'open' and give space to wider and more flexible interpretation. I feel that's very important in working to realign the bs energy.