WOW, I am right in the middle of this dynamic. At work I was entangled in literally this situation you describe whilst I was trying to be pushed into the oppressor's side. With a lot of patience, ray 4 quality and heart centredness I could hold mine and the other's ground without (dis) agreeing. I was kind of proud of myself. But was I completely honest in this situation? I did not ask myself this question, untill a few days later when I twisted my ankle. This made me wonder why I had manifested that. The word twisted in English brought forward more illumination. Twists, turns and manipulations are characteristics of the BS energy to me. After reading this article I realised I have not been completely honest in this situation with a co worker, because I still felt a slight sense of 'I was right" . I was not even aware of it then, but now I am ! And you know what: I don't feel like judging myself, like I tend to, but I can take it in as an experience to evolve. How wonderful, thank you so much for this great article. And by the way , we apparently find ourselves in the midst of the Draconids meteor shower these days, it must have helped to put this dynamic out very sharply for me.