Hi Soumya. Your thoughts caused me reflection over the nature of partnerships and their value to me. I consider them the most challenging aspects of life ( unsurprisingly). Where they can offer reflections of twin flame essence and hence signposts to self realisation, there is also the potential for derailment and trauma. My experiences were dramatic but did propel me forward on my soul journey. Knowing what I know now, I can see the stark difference between a codependency and a co-commitment. I was stagnant in my last relationship because my process of change was not honoured and supported. Of course, ultimately, I allowed that situation to persist. So, is this an instance of 'all is valid'. Whether a situation is aligned or not, it still points to that which is. Retrospectively, the last experience, although painful, provided the shake up I needed to step further into my sovereignty. Ultimately I created a little space to be alone and feel the contrast between the two states of being, a situation that ultimately led to clarity. 

I honour your journey and thank you for sharing.