Yes, I totally agree. There seems to be a rigidity, especially within spiritual circles to do everything the 'right way'. This feels to me as unhealthy as living our lives with complete unawareness of our connectivity to everything around us.
There is no right or wrong way in my book. For me, it usually boils down to what makes me feel happy and contented and I don't just mean one of Trinitys wonderful recipes :)
There is a real danger of overthinking everything and being bogged down by what you think is right and not actually feeling what is right for you. My motto now is to keep things simple and as close to nature as possible. In this space I am who I really am, not influenced by others opinions, following blindly.
We all need guidance and comfort at points in our lives but it's very easy for me anyhow, to tip the balance to a not so good level where I'm striving instead of feeling and rolling with it.
I think this was so well put Open. We all need reminding of this and that there isn't some perfect way that's cut in stone x