Great video clip. I came to the website looking for some words of wisdom to guide me because of in your words, a bust up in a relationship. Hard questions: is it my soul or personality that's running the show? I consider myself blessed and truly live the path unfolding in front of me without efforting for an outcome. I see how where I am now is where I'm meant to be and I have complete faith in the flow. What's difficult is when I'm not able to discern between soul and conditioned programs. When I've created outside circumstances that are calling to me to pull the thread and despite being open to that I still struggle with right action. I remember reading somewhere on here about knowing when to stay and when to go in relationships. I do not want to be part of this person's life anymore. It's really easy for me to just sever ties and the only tightness is a sense that maybe I'm missing something important. Maybe I need to repair because I need to show how caring, forgiving family can be. I wonder about karmic connections and soul contracts. So as you can see it's more complicated than just following the soul because perhaps of things I'm not aware of. Not sure if this is making sense but feels good to put it out there for discussion. Much love. Joann