"It's like the other expresses that repressed aspect of yourself that seems out of reach or too difficult to fully unleash. Then you might feel you can't do without them.
For a man, it might be witnessing the divine feminine - the manifestation of his twin flame. The risk being that you then can't find that sweet softness in all life around you - in the fragility of a bird, or the sweet scent of a flower. For a woman, it might be experiencing the power, strength, commitment and motivation of the divine masculine - such a dependable rock upon which it's so easy to build the foundations of ones life."

This couldn't better express what I am experiencing!! I am here in this 100% supported environment... Seemingly Free from worries about future planning or financial needs... I feel this steady rock of support that never wavers and yet it's not from within and it's not expressing through me. I see how feeling a bit of that uncertainty actually is motivating... It activates something within you that causes you to dig deeper and to express more. I find it very hard to feel motivated to be the best most full expression of me with this comfortable "certainty". How do I live and express from the place of uncertainty when the false sense of security is so strong. I ask myself how would I be, what might I do if there was only me here, no one else to rely on? How might I express differently? Of course in truth there is only one, but I have allowed an aspect of me to be suppressed and fulfilled by my partner) I see myself expressing more Self reliance, building a greater degree of trust in Self and really giving 100% to what stirs my soul. So what is stopping me? How can I be more intimate with uncertainty, step into it more? I will be with that. Thank you Open for the awesome article!! With love, Jen