Hi Jen,

You said...

'I find it very hard to feel motivated to be the best most full expression of me with this comfortable "certainty".

So if your relationship seems solid and dependable and provides for you, and you don't feel to change that, then perhaps look for something new and different that expresses you - some form of creation or project perhaps, that means something to you. Something that you can really care about that is all yours. Then work with that uncertainty.

David - great to hear from you again - yes I imagine being in community it's doubly important to make space for you. Because you're worth it, and it's right.

Open *OK*