yeah fair enough

the choice to simplify and use terms like "polarity" and "opposites" does a poor job of representing the dynamics im attempting to express, i guess "complementary spectrums play out" or something could sum it up better..

i will explore the choice to write it

i maintain that when i engage with others, there is a huge story playing out and the "difference" is important.. there can be a different arrangement of my colours in response to someone elses colours and the stronger colours in someones rainbow at any point in time can sometimes have a response in me to have stronger or weaker colours in my rainbow ..sometimes that can show me my colours that can sometimes struggle to shine and i can explore that...sometimes i shine the opposite colours on the colour wheel stronger which is what i meant by polarities, sometimes its a harmonious spectrum that complements... amongst a bunch of other responses

yes it goes beyond this, but im trying to zone in and out to focus on the subject of the thread ..

its a interesting journey trying to express it!