Hi Andy,

I feel your words. It reminds me of how, several times in the past, I was the odd one out in the family meeting and had to face unconscious judgments. And I had learned through them, just as you are. It's great that you see the karmic lesson behind it.

But I felt I had to ask this: how might you be judging them?

Something I realized in the recent past is that the opposite of judgment is not love. We could also be judging someone by looking through the filter of love. True non-judgment is discernment, being able to see the truth of the situation or a person.

How might you be 'overextending' your connections with them?

I trust this is invited.

Vimal 🙏