Thank you for posting this Open. It really resonated with me as my fiercely independent 96 year old dad had a fall a couple of weeks ago, made worse by hospital staff. I know he has no fear of moving on and I can see the conflict in him – part of him really wants to go home and part feels it has to carry on fighting to achieve the 'best' outcome the hospital staff want for him. I can see it in his moods, one day fighting back and the next wanting to leave. All I can do is watch and support him in whatever way feels right in the moment. This gave me an opportunity for a much needed emotional release as while I try to support him as he fights his 'monsters', I am grappling with my own....

Pam