Hi Stian - good to hear from you and welcome to Openhand

It's understandable that you would be affected by the relationship situations you describe - no doubt many are within family, especially where you have a loving and compassionate open heart.

However, the crucial thing to realise in all of this is that each is on a journey of SELF realisation; furthermore, that each manifested the exact circumstances of their lives in order to gain a reflection that ultimately they may stop and realise who they are. But without the mirror they create, this would not be possible. What I mean by this is that if someone goes down the path of handing over their power within the pandemic and this makes them fearful, that's the mirror they need to see. That's exactly why humanity created this shadow in the first place. At some point the being will have had enough of it and let go of the need for it. But this could take several lifetimes to fulfill. Gaining personal sovereignty is no small accomplishment - it doesn't come lightly.

The real point about this though is, what is the situation saying to you, about you?
Let me ask you a question: would you want someone else (say a loved one) to walk your path for you?
I assume not. In which case, set down the burden of walking their pathways for them. That is for them to carry and walk, not you.

Besides unnecessarily carrying the burden for others, I'd say there's some higher realisation that wants to emerge from this statement...

i also want to help them by spreading my light and love for them

This is most likely to become highly depleting and also self derailing. Plus if they get used to you carrying them, how will they ever carry themselves?

The key is to embody your light, no matter what the circumstances, no matter if the other gets it or not. Even if you happen to be the only one in your vicinity that get's it, so be it. Embody the light anyway. Accept the circumstances you manifested.

By embodying the light without needing the other to get it, your light will strengthen. The neediness will progressively disappear. And that's the moment they're most likely to see it. That's when they're most likely to feel it.

Very best wishes

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