Hi Celia - welcome to Openhand.

Yes indeed, it can be challenging wearing the catalyst energy.

What jumps out from your post is what you say about "always trying to give advice to people". This often has the tendency to explode. People feel disempowered when you offer advice unless they actually ask for it. I witness the most transformative thing a catalyst can do is ask an empowering question... "how do you feel in relation to what happened?" "why do you think you manifested the situation?" "What do you think the situation was teaching you?" When you ask an open ended question it connects at an empathic level but also causes the person to go within and genuinely inquire. You might explore that approach and see how it goes.

Btw - this is where I generally connect with people rathering than exchanging emails.

Best wishes

Open