Facilitating feedback loops
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Hi Apollonius (and Dale),
How I feel for you! I have been there many times - got many tea shirts!
You can see what someone is working with, you're even downloading energy for them, but they either won't listen or are oblivious. It can seem such a waste.
So what helped me was a couple of things: first finding the feedback loop in some other way - my connection with benevolence and their constant support.
Secondly I learned how to facilitate rather than tell. It's all about empowerment. People can often resist if you tell them their truth. So instead ask them an open question... "What did you experience then?" "Does this place activate any feelings for you?" And then if you feel to offer advice... "I have this intuition about what's going on - would you like me to share?"
Although you may feel things 'as truth', remember always it is only ever your perspective. So I'll often say to people "I can sense this, but in sharing with you, remember it is only my perspective. You must figure out how you feel yourself."
So I usually find this takes any resistance out and makes the person more trusting and open.
Hope this helps
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