beautiful share Catherine and I have had similar incidents and it was helpful to understand how you processed it and dealt with it , noted :)I can strongly relate to your last few sentences

"I expressed how I felt and drew firm boundaries with all concerned. I'm so done with anything goes! It was clear that my message was received. That felt so right. One day I'll let the distortion go as it arises and self-realize as the One in that very moment. In the meantime, I'm doing the best that I can."

:)